Ill be blunt Im In a neglectful marriage where my needs are not satisfied but still in love and not looking to leave her. Just looking for discreet fun, starting out with explicit chat and pics then possibly some discreet encounters, not for sex but pretty much anything up to that point Ive tried masturbation a lot but want someone willing to join in and watch me while I watch them masturbate or have them help me while I help them (mutually masturbate) both of these are off limits with my marriage. Also I've never been able to cum from oral and would like to experience that but my wife says I'm too big for her mouth, (its between 8 or 9 inches) Assuming we enjoyed chatting and feel comfortable meeting one another and doing those things with or for each other. There's other specifics I'm looking for but will explain when someone is interested in chatting and the picture exchange.